尾声~

2010年的最后第二天，发现我这一年来，真的很少写blog，从2008年的129，到2009年的83，现在看到2010年的33！！

唉~时间真的过得很快呀~明年，我就要在年龄栏哪填写“26”了~第三张“10”过了大半~

毕业后出来工作也有两年多了，在这两年里，看到了很多，经历了很多，学会了很多，也懂了很多。。失去过，也拥有过。。

虽然到最后，结果并不是自己想要的，但至少自己经历过了，对与错都不重要，也不会后悔。。这就是人生，不是吗？

习惯了每一年都会有个成绩单，今年，我给自己B吧！跟去年一样，没有什么大变化，或大成就，就只是我想要的“平凡”。。

虽然在工作上并不是很如意，但生活却是开心的，尽量不要让生活的一些小污点，影响自己。。毕竟生活不只是局限在那一小部分。。还有很多值得我去珍惜、争取和开心的事物。。不如意或不开心的，我都忘了。。简单、平凡、开心才是我想要的。。

2010年，就只剩下那最后一天了，开心因为明天是天降假期。。哈哈。。要去KL走走咯~

祝大家，2011年，新年快乐！！

习惯

我现在的想法，跟一年前的是一样的。。
“记得我上一次写关于冬至的帖子好像是不久前的事。。。原来已经一年了！！”
“天啊~~~我人生的第三个十年已经过了一半了！！！好像还不能接受自己已经“长这么大了”！”

今天，又是搓汤圆的日子，每一年到了搓汤圆的晚上，心里都会有所感慨。。又过了一年啦~

总是会在冬至的时候来这里留下几个字，这好像已经是一种习惯了。。

习惯每一年的冬至，都会想到自己有老一岁啦~都会想到一年，就这样的过去啦~都会不得不感慨，时间真的不饶人啊~~

2010年，就只剩下那10天。。我还可以做些什么呢？

祝大家，冬至快乐！

08 & 09 November 2010

My honey's birthday on 9th of November.....

Both of us take one week leave...this week was a wonderful holidays for both of us....

8th of November, we went down to KD....meet up with friends there...

BBQ steamboat at Kepong....

After dinner, head on to Bola Bistro in Sunway Giza....
The birthday boy...9th November the next day....shopping at Midvalley and have lunch at Sushi Zanmai....yum yum~~

Happy birthday to my dear....love ya...muaks muaks....^o^

坚强

很佩服一位朋友，在生活面对那么大的转变过后，还能够每天面带笑容，坦然地面对，真的很难想象，她是怎么去承受这样的生活压力。。

她不说，大家还真的不知道她面对着这样的问题。。

我在想，如果这样的事发生在我身上，我是否也能够像她那样，那么的勇敢和坚强的去面对。。我不敢讲。。

她真的是个很乐观、很坚强的女子。。在面对困难的时候还会处处为人着想和帮助别人。。

努力的不让这件事情影响她。。

她说，她有自己一套舒解压力的方法。。为了生活，为了孩子。。她还是那个时时面带笑容她。。

她是那么的坚强。。我真的很佩服她。。

但愿他们能够尽快渡过难关。。重获那原本属于他们的幸福。。

感动。。

有时候太完美的幸福让人畏惧，畏惧承受失去它的痛苦。
我开始害怕走到终点，害怕自己再也回不去。
你难道从来不怕吗？
我知道痛苦是会过去的，我只是需要好好的哭一场，让眼泪重新给我力量。
死亡让生命变得有意义。因为知道生命总有一天会结束，所以懂得珍惜。
人生里一定会有挫折，你的内心一定会有很多的伤口，可是不要害怕有伤口，我们只要具备着能够让我们的伤口长出一朵花的能力，那就已经很美了。。

刚刚看了一则李心洁新书[在我说愿意之前]的预告片，李心洁的话给了我很多的感触。。

她的每一句话都说进了我的心坎里。。她的文字真的很棒。。

幸福，真的不是必然的，而是努力争取来的，不论人生承受多少挫折，都当成学习，就算不能让伤口上开出一朵花，至少下次再碰到问题，要知道如何解决，让自己有能力让明天过得更好。

没有人的人生是没有挫折的，没有人的内心是没有伤口的。。要学会如何去面对，看待。。

人，真的是很渺小的。。生命，也是很脆弱的。。

现在拥有的，不代表永远都属于你。。不能拥有的，把它放在心里，也何尝不是另一种更有意义的拥有？

珍惜，并不是每天把它挂在嘴边，或公告天下的。。

是以行动去证明，用理智去看待。。

拥有或失去，不是用说了算。。心灵的拥有，才是真正的拥有。。

有时候觉得失去了，其实是拥有得更多。。学会知足了，才会看到真正的幸福。。

无题

“一颗小石子放在远处，是那么无限的渺小；但若就放在你眼睛前面，却是无限庞大，是你眼内的全部，甚至占据你思维和世界……你怎么去看待世界，完全是角度的问题，所以还是活得开心点吧……”
今天在面子书看到友人的上载的这一段帖子，觉得很有意思。。
尤其是那一句

“你怎么去看待世界，完全是角度的问题，所以还是活得开心点吧... ...”

在我们的生活中，应多尝试以不同的角度来正面思考及多找机会去帮助他人，别在不知不觉中一味自私的为自己活着。。
世界上没有人是完美，我们不应该把他人的“不完美”放大，而忽略了他人的“好”。。

当我们在埋怨着某人的不是时，是否也应该想想他/她的好呢？

世界上不如意的事多的是，比我们更加不幸千百倍的人也很多。。
当我们在埋怨生活的时候，是否也应该想想那些比我们更加不幸的人呢？
我们应该凡事都从不同的角度去看待，多往好的方面去想，多尝试以平常心看待事物。。

遇到不如意的事，就不要把它放在心上，凡事都看开一些，因为世界上没有一个人、一件事、物是完美的，每一件事情的发生，都会有它的原因，为什么不要往好的方面去想呢？

宽恕他人，也等于宽恕自己，为什么不要对自己好一点呢？

要懂得知足和宽恕，才会获得真正的快乐。。

既来之，则安之。。船到桥头自然直。。

也不懂是不是自己过于“坚持”以上这两句名言，有时候觉得自己真的太天真，凡事都想得很简单。。

可能是我懒得去思考，所以不会去理会人家的闲言闲语，小时候爸爸教我，人家爱说什么，由他去，反正我不会少一块肉。。八卦事情，听听就算，不要去管人家的事情也不要意见多多，因为我只是一个旁观者，不会说话也怕说错话。。慢慢的，觉得自己有时候会傻傻的。。少用脑了，所以人也自然变迟钝。。

erm。。其实也蛮喜欢自己的不聪明。。太复杂的东西，想不通就不要想。。

只想做个简单、开心的人。。\(^o^)/

*前一阵子为了工作而烦心。。有一些事情想不通，现在想通了，我还是那一个开心的我。。呵呵~^o^

Coward

I wish I can go back to the past~~
How I wish I could~~
Go back to my world which is ordinary and simple enough~~
No need to be so outstanding and excellent~~
Just simple enough~~
I'm a coward~~I always wish and try to be courageous and staunch~~but I'm failed~~
I'm a failure~~I get nervous and timid when facing with uncertainty~~even facing with strangers~~I lose my confident~~
I know how this can happen and I know the reasons~~I know how it should be and I know it is true and it is a fact~~
I'm knowing this better than others and I should do it in a right way~~I know the rules clearly and understand it~~
But I just afraid to face it, and failed to implement it~~
I should know my own ability, maybe I'm really do not have that ability~~
I'm a coward, a loser~~
Maybe I should try to let go~~I should try to find another way that is more suit to my character and personaliy, as I refuse to change it~~
Maybe I'll be more happy for not forcing myself to change to be seem capable and succeed~~=）=）=）

Lost again~~

I don't know what happen to me recently...life seems like very busy(in fact is not)....until I lost another piece of memories in September again...=_=

The [Needs] post was wrote during August, until today I only got the mood and can pick out some time to complete it and post it out...and the idea of writing the post was different from the begining already...

During that time, I would like to share about my needs, which I think it couldn't be fulfill even the lowest needs, I found myself lost during that period...

I was downcasting for quite sometime...but I had tried to face it bravely, think positively and smile...

And now, I had found my way to solve it...that is not my problem that annoying me anymore...

So, the changes of the idea of writing the post, is good~~

Again, I will try my very hard not to miss out any piece of memories....at least one post per month...okok!!!

Needs

My 3 years uni life in UPM, was a memorable moment in life...but 3 years study in uni, I almost gave all my knowledges back to UPM...Anyway, there have still some theories that I had learned gave me deep impression until today...and the one which is impress me the most and intimately related to our daily life is...Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs... Recently, I'm starting to think of my life...and reminded about this hierarchy of needs....

Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a theory in psychology, proposed by Abraham Maslow, an American psychologist. This defines every individual’s state of personality development. Marslow divided our needs into five levels, from the lowest to the highest in a pyramid form.

People will try to fulfill needs from the lowest part of the pyramid to the highest.

I'm not kind of people who like to have an excellent life...high achievement...prosperity....

my needs is simple enough...physiological, safety and love/belonging...ppl may think that i'm have not confident, no aspriration, or even useless....

for me, nothing will be more important than my family, friends and beloved one...as long as they can live healthy and safety...that is more than enough for me...

I appreciate what I'm having now...

No matter what happens, I will try to face it bravely, think positively and smile...

because I believe in "Law of Atraction" (another theory again~ =_= wat happen to me oh...lolz..)....

不开心

我不开心。。
很久很久都没有这样子了。。好想大哭一场。。
我想，我真的没有想像中坚强。。
一直认为自己是可以坦然面对生活的。。对所有不愉快的事都可以一笑置之。。
我一直都是乐观的。。不是吗？
是我高估自己了。。
讨厌自己那么软弱。。
讨厌忍泪！！

Bored

Time flies...is going to the end of the year already...i don't know whether it is only my mental reaction...feel that this year really past so fast...

I started to get bored...thinking to have something different and new in my life...thinking to change...is that easy??

王力宏「你不知道的事」

超爱超爱这首歌~~♥♥♥

Pulau Langkawi

This is a trip organised by branch....
We departed from Ti around 10pm, 30th July...the journey started with shakey sleeping night on bus....reach Kuala Perlis around 5am...wait until 7.30am to take ferry to langkawi Island...
Ah ney and I...at the jetty....

Me and Hooi Wen...on the ferry....

Arrived at Langkawi Island....with Chee Lin...

Group photo...
Ah ney + the big eagle = 牛魔王

His "water" in these two days....
Again, the same words....
4 ladies....
Look familiar ya this post??
The next day, Underwater World....

the most happiest moment ---first time saw real penguins....
So cute neh....

Me and penguins...

Big hor??? Like the fish that we always eat ---浦鱼。。。 want 四川蒸or清蒸?

Not bad lor...at least we saw those marine life that we hardly got chance to see....

The overall trip is...so so lor...I'm not really care as long as I can go jalan and relax with my "him" lor....=)

My Birthday 2010

Thanks for my honey for celebrating my brithday trice this year...

Lunar birthday celebration...

It has been long long time I didn't held a birthday party...so this year ah ney decide to do one for me...
My earlier birthday celebration on 17th July 2010 at ah ney's house....thanks for my dearest friends who attended my birthday party...
My dear Yee Pui....
My birthday cake....
Surprise from ah ney...I like it so much....muaks muaks...

Thanks for all the birthday gifts....^O^

My birthday dinner at Sushi King.....

Another birthday boy who has the same birthday with me...celebrate at Q Box....

Both birthday girl and birthday boy....

Last but not least, birthday cake before the end of 19th July 2010....